Couples therapy

I see couples either in person or on zoom. In person sessions are at my practice in Totnes at Chapel House Studios. Couples sessions are usually weekly, cost £100 and last 80 mins.

I work with couples on an open-ended basis, meaning there's no commitment to any specific number of sessions and we continue working together for however long feels useful. I typically work with couples for around a year.

Our work together will be tailored to your needs but broadly I will help you -

  • deepen connection with your partner

  • understand your relationship dynamics

  • stop the cycle of blame, attack and defense

  • build empathy and understanding for one another's different perspectives

  • take responsibility for your own contributions to the dynamics

  • improve physical, emotional and sexual intimacy

  • work through acute crises, traumas and losses

  • clarify your make sense of your feelings

  • build on the relationship's strengths and resources

  • learn how to communicate your needs in a way your partner can respond to

  • for couples who have decided to end their relationship I can help you end on the best possible terms

I know from personal experience how helpful therapy can be and I also know what a big step it can feel like. If you're not sure or have further questions then please get in touch and we can talk it through together.